A Quest for what makes love last...

Have you been married or partnered for more than 10 years? Do you know a couple who has been together for a long time... 25 years... 50 years... or more?

If so, we want to hear your story! Please copy and have both partners answer the following questions:

1. How long have you been Married or Partnered?
2. What are your first names? (no last names please, for privacy)
3. Which state do you reside?
4. How and where did you first meet?
5. What attracted you to each other?
6. How long did you date before you got Married?
7. What caused the biggest fights?
8. What's the best way to settle a fight?
9. Describe any major obstacle that you had to overcome in your relationship. How did you overcome it?
10. Do you share the same religeon and spiritual beliefs? (describe)
11. What activities/hobbies do you enjoy doing together?
12. What activities/hobbies do you enjoy doing separately?
13. Have you ever been separated for any length of time? If so, what happened and how did you get back together?
14. Do you feel you are opposites or similar?
15. What are your biggest differences and similarities?
15. Did your parents like your spouse?
16. Have you ever had any marriage counseling?
17. Do you still show physical affection to each other? (holding hands, kissing, etc.)
18. How frequently do you make love?
19. Do you have children? How many?
20. How did you know your spouse was the right man or woman for you?
21. What would you tell other young couples who are thinking of sharing their life together?
22. What should other couples consider before they get married?
23. What is the race, nationality and age difference between you?
24. Is there anything that would cause you to leave your spouse today?
25. Were your parents happily married for a long time?
26. What do you believe has made your love last?

If you can, please take a photgraph of you and your spouses hands and post here. Also, If you feel comfortable, please post a copy of your wedding photo and a photo of the happy couple today.

Thank you for sharing your story! May it help other young couples have a long and happy relationship.